You Can Bank on It

You can bank on it. It is a law that the British call Sod’s law. It is the belief that something happens ironically just because you could really do without it. For example you won’t have your umbrella on you and of course it will rain. Purely because of that reason. Well this law can also be applied to love. Time and time again in love we find things happening that defy belief. Just when everything is going ok we end up losing the love we had.

More often than not they will be for reasons that you cannot specify. But a lot of the time it is also for reasons that apply to sod’s law. For example you could end up losing your partner because you never got around to getting the shower fixed. You get the shower fixed and she ends up leaving because she realise she doesn’t love you anymore. It is a vicious cycle and one of the reasons why so many relationships break up.

Unfortunately sod’s law works in mysterious ways and there is no way to tell if you are going to end up successful in your relationship or not. There is also no way to tell if sods law will end up hindering your relationship. The chances are that it won’t but there are many other reasons to keep on guard during your relationship. Many other factors that could lead to its demise, so keep on the lookout for everything from tall dark strangers to pushy mother in laws. You really do need to keep on your guard and stay away from temptation.

It is equally likely that you as a man will ruin the relationship as the woman. In fact it is probably more likely to be the man’s fault than the woman’s so ensure that you behave yourself and you hold up your end and the chances are you won’t have a problem. You will build up trust and a rapport as the relationship goes on and you should give your relationship every chance.

Sod’s law will affect your life at some point and you can bank on it being quite important. But don’t despair, remain positive and the chances are you will be ok. Give yourself the best chance of saving your relationship and sod’s law will not affect you in love. Watch out for that rain though. It will rain and when it does it will pour.

 

Larry Elrod is a writer for the Seduction Road Map, a site that teaches men all over the world about how to get laid and how to seduce women.